Rpg Maker Developers Group

Hey guys,
 
Let me explain my situation. I have so far made my game so the player can choose their name, gender and class but...

As you can see from this picture, the players sprite is female where as the face graphic is a guy. The sprite change is automatic depending on the players chosen gender. Is there anyway I can change it so the face graphic changes automatically in the dialogue box depending on the players gender. I know I how to change the actors face graphic in the databass just not so i changes automatically in the text box...
 
If you dont understand it let me know, Im not sure if I explained it well.